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Dishonesty & Inconsideration

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What bothers you and why?

Things that bother me is when people aren’t being honest or they’re very being inconsiderate without considering the other person’s perspective.

With the dishonest issue, it’s when you know, no one is telling you the truth?

It gets me scared and cautious that they can do something bad.

For me, it’s like they’re putting on a fake face, and it’s hard to tell who they really are, but you want to keep your distance.

The other factor of being inconsiderate is that each and every person has has his or her situation that they’re dealing with that nobody knows about.

Everyone has their opinions in public and private settings. And I’ve always seen, in bad situations, people get blamed for something that they can’t control, or the other person doesn’t know about what’s going on.

A few good quotes that I’ve always learned even especially in delicate situations is…

Don’t judge a book by its cover.

You never know what somebody is going through until you walk a mile in their shoes

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Certain Things That is Inevitable

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List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.

Everyone is Going to Pass On

  • No one is immortal, we are all just living our lives until the time that we are gone from this world and pass on…

    Knowledge is Around Some Corner

    • No matter what age or situation you are positive or negative. At a random point in time, or multiple times throughout the year anyone learns something that helps us all grow…

    Creation of Money is Good and Bad

    • Money is one of the most important factors that has changed the world for the good and bad.
    • Good: It’s essential to obtain many things for usage
    • Bad: Can be corrupted in more ways than one….Plus taxes

    People Change People

    • One thing that I know for sure is that as all of us are growing up and interacting with others whether it be your family, friends, teachers, or a stranger on the street, or a nice driver sharing their wisdom. People grow especially from other people with learning something new or being inspired to do something.

    Nothing is Perfect

    • Sometimes people have good days with the biggest smiles and all things fall into place like the yin…But no matter what happens there is going to be a yang where a person has their downfall and goes through rough times. It’s just in balance. Nothing is perfect.

    No One Can Be in Complete Control

    • It’s hard because everyone expects things to work out the way they planned and nothing can go bad. Wrong. There is gonna be a factor in any situation that a person cannot control. But they just adapt and plow through…
    • You cannot control others…no no matter how much you want them to change. You can just let them be and let them decide what they want for themselves

    Constant Change…Everywhere… Anytime

    • No matter at any second, things in the world, a country, a nation, or a single person can change in a snap…

    Time Moves Fast

    • Time is quick…speaking as we are in July of 2025. Half the year just blows by in the blink of an eye. Don’t waste it, go for anything you want to do and live out your life so you don’t look back and see days or years full of regret and sadness

    Help is always needed

    • At any point in time, a person’s always going to need help whether it be from online, whether it be from a coworker, a random person on the bus, a family member, or somebody close or a friend. It’s always going to be at one point hard on one person to take, so it’s good to ask for help.

    Mistakes Happen

    • Everyone makes mistakes….it is unavoidable. That’s ok. We just learn from them and the consequences.
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    Screen Time

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    What could you let go of, for the sake of harmony?

    I can let go of going on my phone for most of the day and most of the night for the sake of harmony, and my mental health

    The bad part of the dopamine has started to affect me very badly….

    Especially my energy levels and importantly my well-being so I have to understand that it’s okay to let go of and I was just trying to keep myself entertained.

    But in reality, I was just jeopardizing my mental health and I need to move forward.

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    The Little Things Matter

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    What’s your definition of romantic?

    In my terms… romantic doesn’t have to be the big or huge grand gestures to show affection to a person.

    Those are okay in a while…but not my definition

    For me, it’s just the little things that do matter. Because they impact the person more than they thought, they did.

    Hmm, for example, if my partner cook something from me after a long day.

    Or us doing activities together that will help strengthen our bond and have great quality time.

    Or even helping around and remembering just unique things about me that I forgot a long time ago that would be a good romantic gesture.

    Hmm, a definition of romantic is a small or even medium gesture to show that he cares about me.

    One person asked me, would you rather accept a $5000.00 designer or exclusive roses or a good evening dinner out/a nic3 trip with a small gesture with a single flower that meant something to you?

    I chose the second option. Because it really reflects how the person it knows me and it’s the little stuff that we can just enjoy each other’s company.

    Why would I waste money or accept something exclusive that won’t last long or that is just the basics when I can have a much more romantic and thoughtful time making more memories that last a lifetime with the person that I will love the most?

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    Prayer and Reminders

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    How do you express your gratitude?

    How I always expressed my gratitude, it’s something that I didn’t really pay attention before until I really got a hard look and heard a very good work famous motivation video from Steve Harvey that really changed my objective of thinking.

    One thing that I always express my gratitude is by praying in the morning and at night, and I express gratitude for even the smallest things that I have right now.

    Another thing that I’ve started is my new habit is writing down affirmations.

    Both of them help my mental health and my attitude in the morning and when I go to bed at night, which is one of the most important times for a good day to start and end.

    Gratitude Motivational Video – Youtube
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    Hard, Patience and Belief

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    What makes a teacher great?

    I think what makes a teacher great is that they are compassionate and when they are being hard, its because they can see the potential in their students

    Patience is one amazing quality that I believe all good teacher should have

    Belief…

    Sometimes teachers don’t know this but a belief in every student goes a long way…

    It’s a factor that can help towards the future of many kids lives

    Teachers
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    Sweet Salmon & Potatoes

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    What’s the most delicious thing you’ve ever eaten?

    The most delicious thing that I have eaten was when I was in Dominican Republic 🇩🇴  and one of Riu Bambu Restaurants

    It was a wonderful grilled Salmon with sweet potato fries with a nice chocolate dessert that was like a s’more that I wanted to have more.

    It was amazing because I never had sweet potato french fries with an interesting side, with the taste of the well-cooked salmon made the night better. 😋

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    Habits are Helpful

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    How do you practice self-care?

    I used to neglect my self-care because of the same old excuses…

    I’m busy

    I don’t have time

    The day is already over so what is the use

    However, reading a book called Atomic Habits and listening to some good YouTube influencers who practice self-care has helped me.

    Still a beginner, but taking it more seriously.

    Some habits with the following cue, craving, reward and response that I have started for my self-care are…

    1. Do not open my phone until 1 hour or 2 when I wake up
    2. Drinking water when I wake up
    3. Trying to sleep early and prioritize sleep
    4. Eating more healthy food and making my meal plan to try new recipes
    5. Exercise in the morning and walking more to help my well
    6. Create a morning and night skincare routine
    7. Meditation when I work at home to reset my mind
    8. Journaling: writing how I felt on paper than keeping it in and becoming mentally unwell
    9. New Hobbies & Comfort Zone. I’m trying to grow more as a person by putting myself out there where its uncomfortable
    10. Limit screen time and reading books
    Self-Care

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    Travel and Experience

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    How do you want to retire?

    I want to retire peacefully and with a good mary to my name that I contributed to anything any company any foundation and they know that I tried my best and I’m completely thankful and free to do what I would love to.

    The first thing is is travel, and do side, projects that would keep me engaged.

    I love traveling and the world is so vast that I have not seen anything yet. I have more and more years of me ahead, if I would love to.

    Well, because through life, there’s always this blockade, stages of kids, helping people and be involved in so many things that you forget to take care of yourself for a bit.

    Even though the world is changing more and more that people are trying to do more self-care in the early stages. But in the retirement in stages, there’s more to look forward to.

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    Passion – So Much

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    What are you passionate about?

    I’m passionate about so many aspects, activties and issues in the world.

    1. Environmentally conscious about our world
    2. Health and Well-being
    3. Sports – Tennis, Olympics, Basketball, Wrestling
    4. Having opportunities like jobs, events and business that are being made anew for people
    5. Technology – tools that will help the bigger picture
    6. Food – all new and different flavors
    7. Entertainment
    8. Books and Stories being made whether they being real or fictional
    9. House Swapping and Interior Design – new creative process to keep my mind running
    10. Mystery and Observation- developed skills in increase my knowledge in deception and reading purple
    11. Anime – new and old stories being part of today’s world
    12. Charities – reaching out for people that need help and taking steps to improve
    13. Self Care