behavior, blogging, random

Act One Way….Different Instantly

What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?

I hate when people act one in a fake manner just to put up appearances.

Then they act completely different in another way and it makes you question who they really are?

Its what I heard from Pretty Little Liars. A good line that applies to hard situations with others

You think you know people…then they surprise you.

Alison Dilaurentis

I see alot of fake people hiding themselves for negative and bad purposes. But luckily the truth comes out and it gives you the signal to run and distance yourselves from them.

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Distress and Flexible

Describe your ideal week.

My ideal week….

So far nothing is perfect, but I would have a good week if these things happen…

At the start of the week on Sunday, I would pray and get ready for church. I would sing songs, dance, and just enjoy myself. And then, as the church ends early, I just come home. Relax and prepare for the week. I think maybe look up some new recipes and just laugh and maybe go for a Sunday evening, walk.

For the weekdays.

I would wake up to wonderful nice sounds in the the start of monday, no stress, I would meditate and pray.

Then I’ll just get ready for the day. To a nice morning routine, maybe some new habits to try out. Then I would go out to the gym or just stay in for a nice workout session and just be around calming energy and hype myself up for the day.

Then I can eat some yummy, healthy breakfast at eye meal prepped, or I made just for a bright start to the day, and go on a a nice walk

I would always remind myself to repeat good affirmation before I start work.

That’ll be my mornings throughout my week.

The lunch would be the same, but each day I would do something different. Maybe a new habit or walk around a new area and be involved in the community.

I would choose one day out of the week may be a Wednesday or Friday to do a hobby for myself in the evenings.

At work, I would love to be involved in events with my coworkers and like build new connections. Have a nice productive day and never feel like I’m behind.

Once a day, I would like to improve myself and maybe learn something new for the day. So it doesn’t feel like time is just passing by.

Saturdays, I would just wake up and reset from the week and try to clean everything. Just get through with the hard stuff and then in the afternoon, just relax, maybe we go out and just breathing some fresh air.

I would like to go out in the afternoons. Maybe to go for it’s like a simple walk or a movie or any show or any activity that I can make a memory.

I get settled in and come back from a nice Saturday and just pray to start the new week on Sunday better.

Each week moving forward, I would love for at least one or two things to get better and just look at life.

blogging, interior design, random, Uncategorized

Spacious but with a Modern Flair

What does your ideal home look like?

What would my ideal home look like…

I’ve always loved the modern flair, but a little bit of the classic side with stone and with grass.

Option 1

I would like maybe two or three stories. I love a basement with a separate kitchen, but I’m not wanting in interior design but I have an interest in it.

I love a big yard, maybe, with a small swimming pool. Also, whether I’ve attached barbecue, I would love summer barbecues to cook in my own house.

Plus I would like to have lots of rooms. Just a big kitchen and a place where I can work and a place where I can work out inside, with machines so I can have good focus.

Option 2

blogging, Childhood, kids, random, Uncategorized

Storytime Before Sleep

What was the last thing you searched for online? Why were you looking for it?

Last thing I searched for was children’s educational bedtime stories.

I searched for it because I was worried about my sister-in-law. She said that both of her kids, my niece and nephew. They are not sleeping well through the night.

And she is getting tired and having baby blues.

I just wanted to help, because I thought maybe adding a routine and making sure they know when to go to bed and signal for that is that most kids like bedtime stories and kind of sleep when their parents are reading it to them. So they can have good dreams and their imagination can go wild.

Storybooks for children are a good investment. Because it really adds to their childhood plus kind of takes away from them being too addicted to technology which even happens to little kids.

It’s like reset not to look at anything just to relax and listen and just drift off to sleep.

I didn’t have any storybooks when I was a kid only when I loved going into the library but I plan on doing that when I have my own family.

blogging, Childhood, decisions, Entertainment, random, TV, TV Shows

Cartoons, Sitcoms, and Nostalgia

What TV shows did you watch as a kid?

Wow, where to start…

There were so many TV shows I grew up with as a kid! From the preschool days of Treehouse, to the classics on Nickelodeon, Disney Channel, Cartoon Network, and even some anime

I really had a wide mix of shows that shaped my childhood.

Ah, the good old days….back when TV felt a little more magical, before it started to feel like content was being rushed out more for quantity than quality.

If I had to break it down, I’d group my favorites by the networks I watched the most:


Treehouse & Nick Junior: The early shows that started it all.

  • Big Comfy Couch
  • Backyardigans
  • Franklin
  • Toy Castle
  • Timothy Goes to School
  • Thomas and his Friends
  • Care Bears
  • Rolie Polie Olie
  • Zaboomafoo
  • Arthur
  • Rugrats

Nickelodeon: Full of laughs, weird characters, and endless fun.

  • Fairly Odd Parents
  • SpongeBob
  • Danny Phantom
  • My Life as Teenage Robot Girl
  • Hey Arnold
  • Avatar
  • Ned’s Declassified School Survival Guide

Disney:  The iconic shows that everyone at school was talking about.

  • Hannah Montana
  • Wizards of Waverly Place
  • Suite Life (Both Seasons)
  • Gravity Falls
  • Phineas and Ferb
  • Thats So Raven
  • Kim Possible
  • Proud Family

Cartoon Network: The quirky, creative cartoons that were sometimes hilarious…and sometimes just plain bizarre, in the best way.

  • Powerpuff Girls
  • Dexter’s Laboratory
  • Looney Tunes
  • Scooby-Doo
  • Teen Titans

Anime: My gateway into a whole new world of storytelling.

  • Inuyasha
  • Tokyo Mew Mew
  • Sailor Moon
  • Dragon Ball Z

There are honestly so many more, but if I wrote about every single one, this post would turn into a novel! So instead, I’m just going to highlight my top favorites….the shows that truly stuck with me, ones I loved then and still hold close to my heart today.

blogging, decisions, development, growth, life, mental health, random, Uncategorized, writing

Mix of Morning & Evening

What’s your favorite time of day?

My favorite time of day? 🤔

Well a couple of years ago, it would be a different answer…

But now I do love the mix of mornings 🌄 and evenings 🌆

Now that I have added a morning routine with some tips of:

  • Making my bed
  • Drinking a glass a water when I wake up
  • Adding a skincare routine
  • Exercise (HIT, Stretch, Pilates)
  • Good Breakfast

Love when the sunrise hits and I see a hue of beautiful colors.

For evenings, I like just shutting off from work and relaxing freely.

Look back at the day and drinking some tea and reading a good book and eating a warm dinner.

Plus evenings help to:

  • Plug out of work mode
  • Set yourself up for tomorrow
  • Warm dinners
  • Good kickback entertainment that brings a smile
  • Read, relax and reset
  • Do something for yourself
blogging, decisions, development, hobbies, media, Movies, random

Binge-Watch Cinema

What are your top ten favorite movies?

My Top 10 favorite movies… 😅

That’s gonna be hard to reduce to 10. Because I have some personal favorites. I might as well just note it down due to my love of my comfort for cinema.

  1. Rush Hour Trilogy
  2. Matilda 
  3. Avengers: Infinity War and Endgame
  4. Charlie Brown Holiday Movies
  5. Home Alone 2: Lost in New York
  6. Kuch Kuch Hota Hai
  7. Madagascar Trilogy/Ice Age Quintet Movies/Shrek Forever
  8. Incredibles 1 and 2
  9. Your Name/Demon Slayer – Movie Train Arc
  10. Any Disney Movie that is reminiscent – HSM Trilogy, Wizards, Twiches, TV Movie or near a holiday

It was difficult but these movies are special for me….

However, its hard because some new movies are taking some favorites for me currently.

blogging, mental health, mindset, random, writing

Free Speech and Expression

What do you enjoy most about writing?

Writing is a new hobby of mine that I have developed when I started Journaling….

And I am so glad I did because it has given me the freedom to express myself in anyway I can

Any of my positive, negative, weird, and unique thoughts that come at any time I can remember…

Freedom of speech, because I was always too shy and scared to speak out.

Scared of judgement

Scared of my creating my own safe space

Scared of trying to develop my critique voice

Also, it is very beneficial to one’s mental health

As I experience the hard times with emotions of anger, sadness, depression, or frustration, or grief

Words I write down help to just get it out to help move forward and help me feel lighter

Writing helps and fixes that for me a lot…

blogging, random, words

Pharse: Like

What is a word you feel that too many people use?

As a millennial living in the twentieth century, with a lot of females, even guys, anything to describe, they would always say the word… like.

It is used in every type of sentence especially when you want to express something or you want to describe an example…Like it’s used quite a lot of times.

Usually in social terms in the popular term, it’s just a quick and usually fashionable way to say.

Like I don’t know

I’m like totally gonna win this.

Like it’s something like I don’t know even like

Like whatever…

I have heard those words and phrases quite a lot.

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Silence….No Drama Good Books….Meditate

What brings you peace?

Silence and nice sounds in the morning give a sense of peace

As a quiet person who now realizes a good part of “The Let Them Theory” and focuses on myself more to just live peaceful.

I don’t get involved in people’s issues, problems, gossip, or rumors because that brings a headache on its on.

If people speak about me…Let Them

Don’t try to control people or anything because it’s more peaceful.

Meditation and reading a good book are methods that bring me peace.

Just not thinking and relaxing and putting my mind into learning something new and not staring at a screen gives a good peaceful mind.