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Certain Things That is Inevitable

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List 10 things you know to be absolutely certain.

Everyone is Going to Pass On

  • No one is immortal, we are all just living our lives until the time that we are gone from this world and pass on…

    Knowledge is Around Some Corner

    • No matter what age or situation you are positive or negative. At a random point in time, or multiple times throughout the year anyone learns something that helps us all grow…

    Creation of Money is Good and Bad

    • Money is one of the most important factors that has changed the world for the good and bad.
    • Good: It’s essential to obtain many things for usage
    • Bad: Can be corrupted in more ways than one….Plus taxes

    People Change People

    • One thing that I know for sure is that as all of us are growing up and interacting with others whether it be your family, friends, teachers, or a stranger on the street, or a nice driver sharing their wisdom. People grow especially from other people with learning something new or being inspired to do something.

    Nothing is Perfect

    • Sometimes people have good days with the biggest smiles and all things fall into place like the yin…But no matter what happens there is going to be a yang where a person has their downfall and goes through rough times. It’s just in balance. Nothing is perfect.

    No One Can Be in Complete Control

    • It’s hard because everyone expects things to work out the way they planned and nothing can go bad. Wrong. There is gonna be a factor in any situation that a person cannot control. But they just adapt and plow through…
    • You cannot control others…no no matter how much you want them to change. You can just let them be and let them decide what they want for themselves

    Constant Change…Everywhere… Anytime

    • No matter at any second, things in the world, a country, a nation, or a single person can change in a snap…

    Time Moves Fast

    • Time is quick…speaking as we are in July of 2025. Half the year just blows by in the blink of an eye. Don’t waste it, go for anything you want to do and live out your life so you don’t look back and see days or years full of regret and sadness

    Help is always needed

    • At any point in time, a person’s always going to need help whether it be from online, whether it be from a coworker, a random person on the bus, a family member, or somebody close or a friend. It’s always going to be at one point hard on one person to take, so it’s good to ask for help.

    Mistakes Happen

    • Everyone makes mistakes….it is unavoidable. That’s ok. We just learn from them and the consequences.
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    Habits are Helpful

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    How do you practice self-care?

    I used to neglect my self-care because of the same old excuses…

    I’m busy

    I don’t have time

    The day is already over so what is the use

    However, reading a book called Atomic Habits and listening to some good YouTube influencers who practice self-care has helped me.

    Still a beginner, but taking it more seriously.

    Some habits with the following cue, craving, reward and response that I have started for my self-care are…

    1. Do not open my phone until 1 hour or 2 when I wake up
    2. Drinking water when I wake up
    3. Trying to sleep early and prioritize sleep
    4. Eating more healthy food and making my meal plan to try new recipes
    5. Exercise in the morning and walking more to help my well
    6. Create a morning and night skincare routine
    7. Meditation when I work at home to reset my mind
    8. Journaling: writing how I felt on paper than keeping it in and becoming mentally unwell
    9. New Hobbies & Comfort Zone. I’m trying to grow more as a person by putting myself out there where its uncomfortable
    10. Limit screen time and reading books
    Self-Care

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    Passion – So Much

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    What are you passionate about?

    I’m passionate about so many aspects, activties and issues in the world.

    1. Environmentally conscious about our world
    2. Health and Well-being
    3. Sports – Tennis, Olympics, Basketball, Wrestling
    4. Having opportunities like jobs, events and business that are being made anew for people
    5. Technology – tools that will help the bigger picture
    6. Food – all new and different flavors
    7. Entertainment
    8. Books and Stories being made whether they being real or fictional
    9. House Swapping and Interior Design – new creative process to keep my mind running
    10. Mystery and Observation- developed skills in increase my knowledge in deception and reading purple
    11. Anime – new and old stories being part of today’s world
    12. Charities – reaching out for people that need help and taking steps to improve
    13. Self Care
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    Variety of Hobbies

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    What are you good at?

    I’m a kind of perfectionist that I want to be good at everything…

    However, I have been humbled…

    And now know it is alright to be good at one thing and not another and build yourself to try a new skill or to not be aware of what I am good at so I’ll try my best.

    For instance… I’m good at

    1. Singing
    2. Cooking
    3. Observing….a bit of Deduction ~ Still working on it
    4. Memorization
    5. Dancing
    6. A mix of Art in different forms

    That’s all I could think of.

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    Self-discipline & Time Management

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    What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

    Self discipline is a little bit hard for me, because sometimes I procrastinate, and I forget and I don’t have things in order and I just leave them to the last minute.

    Which I knew is a very bad habit…

    But if I had more self-discipline and more faith in myself, then I would be able to set new systems to achieve my goals better.

    And if I had that good discipline, I would believe in myself and have more self confidence to go out of my comfort zone.

    And it would improve in my life. Because it would help me both professionally and personally, which I am working on.

    Another would be how to manage my time. Or better I don’t have good time management skills sometimes because I don’t know how time can go so fast.

    Sometimes it would take quick to do when task, but it takes me a bit longer.

    Maybe it’s distractions,

    maybe it’s a little bit of in my own head,

    my own personal struggle that I have to improve on my own skills on,

    But I am trying to manage it, watch it, and review myself the best way I can.

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    A Good Boss Can Be Always Missed

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    Share a story about someone who had a positive impact on your life.

    Since I was in high school, I’ve always been afraid of going in or starting to work. Because I was scared about the corporate boss. Because I know they can be intimidating and mean.

    But when I got my second career job in the one that I’m in now, I was actually grateful for it, the manager that I had…

    She was the controller of our group.

    Yeah, well, she is retired now. But I still do really miss her. And she has had a positive impact on my life.

    She held me both professionally and personally…

    I had a breakdown one time when I couldn’t control my emotions anymore. And I just broke down crying in the office, and she was the one that really helped me and talked to me.

    I’ve been getting behind on work. I my head wasn’t straight. I just had so much stress and depression. Stress about what to do or how stuck I am, I wasn’t aware how to begin and how to help.

    And really let me talk about all the stress that I am having in my personal life that’s badly affecting my professional career

    Stress and fears. Two of the down points that i’m still having, but it’s always a good thing for a good leader to just lend an ear and listen 

    Even though she is retired, she gives me the confidence to try more and look myself in a better light. She is also one of the people I can look up to.

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    Who Dunnit?

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    What’s a job you would like to do for just one day?

    A job that I would love to do for just 1 day….It would be a secret spy detective.

    I would love to be involved in a mystery that would have some twists and turns and weight we’re finding out who duunit?

    Because I like adventure and I like some action. I’m a fan of mystery novels, and TV shows put people on an adventure to see what happens at the end, and everyone goes home learning something.

    For me, I would love to be a Detective Conan movie. Because there’s always something nature happened.That involves all the characters that are close to the main character in the mystery. That’s so much fun. And the anticipation to see which adventure is next and see what would happen.

    Like a murder mystery or a high-stakes, mission that brings danger to a large population of people or a secret bad guy organization that’s about to find out a secret or something that just involves high impact.

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    DKNY & Guess

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    What are your favorite brands and why?

    I would say my favorite shoe brand like canvas and regular ones for fashion is DKNY.

    It’s because they’re comfortable, they’re fashionable and they are more my style. I’m more laid back, but I can still be comfortable and fashionable.

    I like Guess because I love fairly different cuts and different patterns and fashion styles. Since I  always get one dress or shirt from there for my birthday. Plus the sequence outfits are really cool.

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    Camp Manitou

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    Have you ever been camping?

    Well, if I were to remember… I had to or have been camping with my family, no, but I did go on a camp trip to Camp Manitou when I was in high school in the 10th grade.

    Camp Manitou

    Camp Manitou, alongside one of the lakes in Ontario, far from the city…

    Just to get away, have some fun. Especially on a good high school trip. That created good memories for me. It was the first time I was away from my parents for so long.

    I think I went to 4-5days, and that was fun. Well, a tough four days for my parents, especially my dad, because he really missed me.

    Well, I did love when we got there. Evertjne was separated into squads. I was on the Pink squad. It was so much fun to do different acting activities such as bobbing for apple, dancing at different random times, arts and crafts, eating good food food, canoeing competition and free falling from a high area which I conquered my fear of heights a bit.

    I kind of gave up on the rock climbing midway through because I didn’t have any upper body strength 😂😂

    But it is a camping experience that I will always remember.

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    Lost Opportunities

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    Write about a time when you didn’t take action but wish you had. What would you do differently?

    There are many loss opportunities that I wish I could have done differently, or I wish I would have taken action.

    I would say if I didn’t take action on joining more clubs at school, just getting more on my comfort zone and meeting more people because I was always the quiet and shy.

    I really regret it. Or else I would have made a bit more friends and had more of them.It’s a good school experience.

    Another experience would be probably when the pandemic hit. I should’ve got in more time to volunteer build up myself to learn more.

    Also, I should have taken the opportunity to go do my Master’s right away after I was done with college. Instead of going straight to work, I would be in a different place by now….but who knows

    But the most missed opportunities I would say for myself is going out and enjoying the sociality of many events, traveling, and seeing many festivals just to bring in new experience.

    But now I demonstrate JOMO and that’s okay for me..