Category: life

life, random

Failure, Betrayal and Standing Up

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What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

The experience in life that helped me grow the most. I think it was probably mostly the harsh and the bad times.

It hit me like a ton of bricks. Really put me down. But it made me stronger, and I want to move forward and grow.

Everyone has failed a lot of times in life I have in grade school. But la harsh is one is a failure that happened to me recently, repeatedly, for past 2 to 4 years.

It made me unclear of my future, but I did learn that I still growing from it.

Betrayal from the people that are closest to you kind of puts things into perspective and makes you wanna stand back and see how people truly are. But you kind of learn self reliance on yourself.

Even when people comment or their little nitpicks or their stupid opinions put me down just makes me.I felt really sad but from my past version, and right now i’ve kind of grown from it and just ust stand up for myself.

adventure, blogging, life, random

Immigration to Canada

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What were your parents doing at your age?

Well, i’m in my mid twenties, and I believe my parents didn’t even meet each other yet.And they were planning on immigrating to Canada.

Because I know they met in their late twenties to thirties at a picnic in Toronto.

But I think when they’re my age, they are just experiencing coming to a new country.

Probably experiencing a lot of their firsts from the end, one of the northern countries of the world.

For snowfall versus trip to a local grocery store, first local trip to public  schools, parks  traffic lights, different traffic, electricity that is on all the time.

So I think they were stepping into their new life.

blogging, experience, life, random, time

Late 1900s to Early 2000s

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“If I could live in any time period for a week, I’d choose… 🤔

I thought I can just make a nice random daily prompt. 😁

If I could go back in any time period for a week. I think I would choose the late 1990s to the early 2000s. I would say, that’s when life was a bit more brighter.

Well, even if I was born in that time frame it was an interesting time in each aspect of life.

I mean…with entertainment…New people were coming in and interesting pop culture just bursted into the century.

It was more of the blast of technology with the internet, just taking over and and just rediscovering that and reflecting from now in the future is just a funny thought.

New waves was coming through in different aspects, healthcare, technology like pop culture, entertainment movies, politically, absolute global settlement.

And around that time, it was actually peaceful technology.Just came out, do people weren’t so into their phones that they had actual connection.

There was actual enjoyment and carefree way with living life.

blogging, life, random

Life Itself

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Do you need a break? From what?

Everyone can use a breakfrom their life.

Especially reaching a plateau of darkness that its hard to breathe.

Take a break. Get Out.

Its hard to imagine that sometimes life can kick you in the ass people can get in absolute dark place.

Especially my situation now, where life uncertainties kick me and now I just need a break from my life.

Just not be me for a sec.

Balance, blogging, chances, decisions, flexibility, gratitude, growth, hobbies, interests, learning, life, limit, motivation, random, Uncategorized

Marathon/Hike to the Top

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What could you try for the first time?

Since I started my fitness journey last year .I really wanted to work on my endurance and grit for long periods.

And I’ve seen people who’ve built up and grown so much in their fitness journey and put so many activities and have really tried one marathon as a realistic goal.

Like, I remember one of the famous movies, I’m not sure. It has something to do with a famous boxer or a person in training. When a person runs up the stairs and then cheers as they reach their goal.

I wanna try to do that. Maybe running a 5k marathon or hiking up a big trail like a mini mountain to reach the top or finish line and look down and say…

Yeah, I did it.

And since I’ve always been sedentary and put some workouts in my routines, I’ve never tried running a marathon as a nice fitness goal, and running as an activity so that could be something I can try for the first time.

blogging, decisions, development, growth, life, Money, random

Second Chances

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If you had a million dollars to give away, who would you give it to?

If I had a million dollars to give away first of all, that would be great. And I would bless and thank God.

But I would give it to those people who could have a second chance.

People’s journeys come to a standstill, and they don’t know what to do. The most important factor in any place is having money. So you can do what you aspire to do.

Not a lot of people have that.

For instance, like homeless people who lost everything. But still want a second chance at pursuing their dream and having the ability of a good income to be okay.

Like convicts that have done something wrong, horrible even due to their previous circumstances and have suffered the consequences. They’re in a dark tunnel and don’t have the light when they’re released back into society. It’s good to help those who are looking for a second chance to help, not only for the public, but also for themselves and become part of the working environment.

Like helping the people who need financial aid in their higher education, because money is always an issue when trying to pay off a student loan or trying to pay for tuition. So you can try something new or something that you wish to be. It’s a good stepping stone to make sure that they’re truly financed with the learning opportunity to grow to begum the next generation’s good leaders.

I’d like to give the money for those type of people who deserve a second chance.

behavior, blogging, life, random

Failure & Alone

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Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.

As a young girl, I am used to or accustomed to trying to succeed every time, and every time that I fail, it would just be a hammer to the head or a punch in the face that and everything would be fallen out of place.

Or there are some times when I do have social anxiety, and I feel alone, and I just feel out of place with the other cliques or groups of friends that I’m not part of.

Or another feeling that I just don’t belong.

It’s a lonely inside feeling, but I always get reminded later that I will be okay….sometimes.

I mean, no one’s perfect, but it’s really hard not to be perfect in your parents’ eyes when they have high expectations for you. It adds a couple of pressures.

And when you’re a quiet girl, it’s hard to make friends but I understand now that you don’t need a lot of friends to be okay. But I do have a small, but it does make me feel a little lonely and scared.

blogging, learning, life, mental health, mindset, motivation

Gratitude and 1% Better

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What’s your #1 priority tomorrow?

I never notice until late but I never gave gratitude to what I had or how my life came to be right now.

When I was at very low points in my life…

And I know there will still be some in the future.

I always make sure to give gratitude as a priority.

Also…I always wanted to make sure to prioritize learning no matter how small that I learn or improve at something every day.

Build up 1% and give gratitude.

blogging, decisions, development, growth, life, mental health, random, Uncategorized, writing

Mix of Morning & Evening

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What’s your favorite time of day?

My favorite time of day? 🤔

Well a couple of years ago, it would be a different answer…

But now I do love the mix of mornings 🌄 and evenings 🌆

Now that I have added a morning routine with some tips of:

  • Making my bed
  • Drinking a glass a water when I wake up
  • Adding a skincare routine
  • Exercise (HIT, Stretch, Pilates)
  • Good Breakfast

Love when the sunrise hits and I see a hue of beautiful colors.

For evenings, I like just shutting off from work and relaxing freely.

Look back at the day and drinking some tea and reading a good book and eating a warm dinner.

Plus evenings help to:

  • Plug out of work mode
  • Set yourself up for tomorrow
  • Warm dinners
  • Good kickback entertainment that brings a smile
  • Read, relax and reset
  • Do something for yourself
Balance, blogging, creative, decisions, development, flexibility, gratitude, life, mindset, random, self-reflection

Unique…but Reasonable

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How would you describe yourself to someone?

I would describe myself as quiet but unique when you get to know me.

Sometimes…I can be creative or have a mental block.

Passionate about different projects, good news, media, and a lot of rare things to show and look back on.

I’m empathetic, and respectful because I am not quick to judge anyone until I get to know them on a comfortable level and layers for me to let go to show my true self.

I scare easily and am fearful…But I was born in a wonderful faith with a respectful religious background which I always remain humble.

Sometimes I show too much passion, especially for sports or topics I love…

I have a bad habit of overhinkjng and stressful, because ai wnt things to be perfect or fix things easily and too nice.

So I reflect a lot on myself and always try to grow in any way I can.

Can be lazy…but responsible and always loyal to my loved ones because inside that I am still working on, I care about other people more than I do myself.

Quiet, Unique, Simple but Passionate and Caring

That’s Me and I’m still working to be better 🙂