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A Mix of an Anime World – Alternate

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Describe your life in an alternate universe.

I’m such a huge anime fan, that if I had to choose an alternate universe to explain my life in there….

It can be between 2 options, so why not both? 😄

Option 1: Alternative Universe (One Piece)

I wake up on the top of my big pirate ship… 🚢

Sun beams through and one my crew members calls me down for breakfast

Quickly change and get ready and hop on a nearby rope and swing down and land on my vice captain and my medical help and laugh together

And go into the kitchen to a nice meal and loud fussing of my 12 pirate crew

We all laugh and play around

If there is any trouble, I will help defend and fight to get the navy off my back

Escaping and challenging myself to next big threat

So in summary, my life would be carefree and finding adventure and meeting so much people and feeling free on the sea. 😉

Option 2: Alternate Universe (Detective Conan)

Waking up in a big mansion in my house with my family, 2 big brothers and one big sister. 😀

My parents would be well-known and give me more freedom and fewer restrictions.

My brothers would be a police officer high executive and the other would be an entertainer. My sister would be a doctor that is overly cautious.

Me… I would be in high school and working to be a detective like the main character.

Also, I would work with the police department as a consultant to help with cases no matter how dangerous.

I’ll wake up doing the nice routine and say hello my family members. Mom and Dad are off on a business trip but still have the make time to video call us.

My 3 or 4 classmates comes to pick me up for school and we all work together.

I would an acquaintance that I argue, but it will be one of those instances where I argur with him all thr time but don’t know when I start to fall for him

I would have a scientist as friend with a small family friend that helps me and build me different I can use.

I use a scooter or electric scooter to get places and have the wind in my hair where I can  do what I would like.

I would have lots of hobbies, one being karate, karuta or dance that I could go.

Still having responsibilities but feeling more me and better.

Summary in  this alternative would be a smart high school girl detective who helps when there is trouble that lurks in any corner and be sharp like Sherlock Homles or Ms. Marple.

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Social Events

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What fears have you overcome and how?

Hmm, recently I have tried to overcome my fear for a goal this year of going to a large social event by myself, with no friends or relatives or family members.

I was just going to a cool social event by myself, avec moi…

It’s really scary, but since I’ve gone to small events with my friends. I thought it might be a nice idea to take a big leap out of my comfort zone and go to a social event by myself.

And I would have to say it was pretty cool and fun. I got most of my comfort today but soon I was nervous at first but then I kind of blended in.

It was an anime convention called Anime North, and it’s usual, certainly every year in May that they usually have their convention to go see panelists, play games, and cosplay. It’s just nice to see the costumes and just to go around having fun.

Since I’m a big fan of anime, I’ve always loved watching it ever since I was young till now and forever, and I was really surprised at all the costumes and so many people that came for a genre that we all love to watch, which was interesting.

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Self-discipline & Time Management

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What’s one small improvement you can make in your life?

Self discipline is a little bit hard for me, because sometimes I procrastinate, and I forget and I don’t have things in order and I just leave them to the last minute.

Which I knew is a very bad habit…

But if I had more self-discipline and more faith in myself, then I would be able to set new systems to achieve my goals better.

And if I had that good discipline, I would believe in myself and have more self confidence to go out of my comfort zone.

And it would improve in my life. Because it would help me both professionally and personally, which I am working on.

Another would be how to manage my time. Or better I don’t have good time management skills sometimes because I don’t know how time can go so fast.

Sometimes it would take quick to do when task, but it takes me a bit longer.

Maybe it’s distractions,

maybe it’s a little bit of in my own head,

my own personal struggle that I have to improve on my own skills on,

But I am trying to manage it, watch it, and review myself the best way I can.

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Hard to say a simple “NO”

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How often do you say “no” to things that would interfere with your goals?

Well, in my case, a little or sometimes…..

It’s because I’ve always been a people. Pleaser, I’ve always had to say yes because I always felt guilty or bad, or I put people interests in front of my own.

I’m still trying to fix it, but um now I’m trying to say no, or you don’t go to things that will interfere in achieving my goals. Especially for or creating my own new mindset and lifestyle.

For instance, I had to say no to doing a tiresome job that my father forced me to take because it was causing me too much stress. It won’t let me achieve my goals, and plus it really made me feel depressed.

It felt good and a great decision. Because I feel not obligated for any tedious tasks and feel less stressed.

But it’s still hard to say no to my close ones, even though i’m working on it…😅

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You’re Good Just The Way You Are

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What was the best compliment you’ve received?

Let’s see….

I would say the best compliment that I have ever received was from my mom and from a special friend that I’m getting to know….

They saw them some of my flaws, like sometimes I’m lazy a little bit. I can be a little bit too shy. I bet stubborn, but i’m always kindhearted and want the best for people and treat everyone with respect that they deserve.

But a bad mental habit of mine is that i’m too self-conscious of myself.

I put myself down a lot with negative talk.

But I appreciated it when they complimented me. Even though I changed physically or mentally, i had to remind them that I wasn’t doing anything else but for myself.

They still say that don’t let another person change you,” because I am already great and appreciate me for me just the way I am.

Before I would change recovery would say them someone, it’s something negative for me or be so self conscious that I really don’t want to express who I am to other people because they won’t accept me.

The compliment was just a great reminder that I can still stay and remain true to myself.

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Perseverance

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How has a failure, or apparent failure, set you up for later success?

One recent apparent failure that has set me up for future success or set me on the future path would be when I failed one important.

Let’s say it was for a postgraduate option trying to help improve my knowledge and with my career earlier two years ago, and I was a bit devastated, well more than devastated, when I failed, didn’t really feel more confidence in myself in lost more even self worth.

So I gave up, but then I started to take a break and then look forward, and I learned a few things, a few skills took a step back and re-evaluate the situation. And here I am again willing to give it another because the worst thing isn’t giving up the worst thing is not trying as much and learning more as I can.

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Starting Fresh

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What is the biggest challenge you will face in the next six months?

I thought I would just start over in the new year with all the goals, objectives, and plans that I want to do to change my life moving forward.

With wanting to gain financial freedom

Change my habits and routines

Get outta my comfort zone

Achieve my fitness goals

Prioritize Sleep and Self-Care

Get ready to study again and move forward in my career

Finding a life outside work and find activities and friends

Have plans to start a small passive investment

Building a trip this year

But everything has been delayed during to fear, procrastination and distractions

But no longer… and try to get to my best version of myself and gain more happiness one step at a time and not rush.

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Confidence ~ Overthinking

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What is one thing you would change about yourself?

Not every human is perfect, including me.

I would say one thing that I wish I can change about myself is especially my confidence.

As a child, I was really very quiet and shy. I would just try to do my best and atleast try some challenges, but I always doubt myself if i’m really worth it.

It’s probably because I’m always comparing myself to people or any person around me.

I don’t really appreciate myself as often as I should so I wish I could just head forward with anything with more confidence and believe in myself more.

The other one thing that I that’s still a problem today and I wish I could change about myself is my overthinkin

Overthinking causes so much anxiety and fear and questioning that your mental health is not well.

For me, it is one of the problems that i’ve always had, so if I could change that one thing, it would be better in the long run.