Tag: life

life, random

Failure, Betrayal and Standing Up

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What experiences in life helped you grow the most?

The experience in life that helped me grow the most. I think it was probably mostly the harsh and the bad times.

It hit me like a ton of bricks. Really put me down. But it made me stronger, and I want to move forward and grow.

Everyone has failed a lot of times in life I have in grade school. But la harsh is one is a failure that happened to me recently, repeatedly, for past 2 to 4 years.

It made me unclear of my future, but I did learn that I still growing from it.

Betrayal from the people that are closest to you kind of puts things into perspective and makes you wanna stand back and see how people truly are. But you kind of learn self reliance on yourself.

Even when people comment or their little nitpicks or their stupid opinions put me down just makes me.I felt really sad but from my past version, and right now i’ve kind of grown from it and just ust stand up for myself.

blogging, experience, life, random, time

Late 1900s to Early 2000s

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“If I could live in any time period for a week, I’d choose… 🤔

I thought I can just make a nice random daily prompt. 😁

If I could go back in any time period for a week. I think I would choose the late 1990s to the early 2000s. I would say, that’s when life was a bit more brighter.

Well, even if I was born in that time frame it was an interesting time in each aspect of life.

I mean…with entertainment…New people were coming in and interesting pop culture just bursted into the century.

It was more of the blast of technology with the internet, just taking over and and just rediscovering that and reflecting from now in the future is just a funny thought.

New waves was coming through in different aspects, healthcare, technology like pop culture, entertainment movies, politically, absolute global settlement.

And around that time, it was actually peaceful technology.Just came out, do people weren’t so into their phones that they had actual connection.

There was actual enjoyment and carefree way with living life.

blogging, life, random

Life Itself

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Do you need a break? From what?

Everyone can use a breakfrom their life.

Especially reaching a plateau of darkness that its hard to breathe.

Take a break. Get Out.

Its hard to imagine that sometimes life can kick you in the ass people can get in absolute dark place.

Especially my situation now, where life uncertainties kick me and now I just need a break from my life.

Just not be me for a sec.

blogging, learning, life, mental health, mindset, motivation

Gratitude and 1% Better

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What’s your #1 priority tomorrow?

I never notice until late but I never gave gratitude to what I had or how my life came to be right now.

When I was at very low points in my life…

And I know there will still be some in the future.

I always make sure to give gratitude as a priority.

Also…I always wanted to make sure to prioritize learning no matter how small that I learn or improve at something every day.

Build up 1% and give gratitude.

blogging, decisions, development, growth, life, mental health, random, Uncategorized, writing

Mix of Morning & Evening

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What’s your favorite time of day?

My favorite time of day? 🤔

Well a couple of years ago, it would be a different answer…

But now I do love the mix of mornings 🌄 and evenings 🌆

Now that I have added a morning routine with some tips of:

  • Making my bed
  • Drinking a glass a water when I wake up
  • Adding a skincare routine
  • Exercise (HIT, Stretch, Pilates)
  • Good Breakfast

Love when the sunrise hits and I see a hue of beautiful colors.

For evenings, I like just shutting off from work and relaxing freely.

Look back at the day and drinking some tea and reading a good book and eating a warm dinner.

Plus evenings help to:

  • Plug out of work mode
  • Set yourself up for tomorrow
  • Warm dinners
  • Good kickback entertainment that brings a smile
  • Read, relax and reset
  • Do something for yourself
blogging, random

A Small Change Brings Forward a Big Smile

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What change, big or small, would you like your blog to make in the world?

For my blog, I like to focus on the stories that I take or I write about, or I experience or even other people’s stories just to discuss it more.

I’m just a beginner, but I just want to make a small change in the world. If one person gets to see what I write, it brings a smile or changes their mood, or uplifts their day. That’s good for me. And that’s my goal.

Hopefully, a small smile on a person’s face from my blog can experience laughter a small smile or a change in mood and extend to a big change throughout the world.

One can hope and dream….

blogging, self-reflection

Break Down the Walls… What Do You See

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How would you describe yourself to someone who can’t see you?

I am a person who has a lot of walls up.

Sometimes I find it hard to see myself, including everyone else…

Piece by piece as the wall starts to break down.

I’m quiet and observant, but also can be loud and passionate.

I am always helpful to anyone who needs a hand, but I kind of take on way too much for me to handle.

I’m interested in many activities and hobbies, but also scared to try something new.

I love deep conversations 😌 but can get bored when its the wrong topic.

I love playing around at times….But I take some things too seriously and I mess up.

I overthink and want things to be perfect or I don’t want to do anything wrong. But I learn from mistakes and try not to repeat.

Love classics whether be music, style, events that were great in the past, but live in modern times, and truly try to live in the moment.

I’m cultural and respect tradition…but not old fashioned and understand the importance of how things evolve.

I’m not funny when I try to and funny by incident.

I love to be social but do like when I calm down to try and spend time with myself.

So how should I describe me…

Hmm…

I’m all of those parts and more when I take my time and patience and break down the walls.

Take time to break down the walls
blogging, chances, fun, growth, happiness, life, random, time

At any moment, Everything Changes

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How do significant life events or the passage of time influence your perspective on life?

Significant life events.

Or how time passes by so fast?

Makes me really believe in the saying, live your life to the fullest.

Well, one event that changed everyone’s perspective will see the pandemic that happened in 2020.

I mean, my whole perspective about how social events are really talking to people.Well, really impacts the quality of life.

It was a little bit lonely, but it was precautious for everyone to stay in their homes camous. Keep their distance and make sure that everyone’s safe. Well, the world is dealing with sickness that spreads around like wildfire.

Even with the passage of time, it’s really shocking….

How you just blink….and time is just passed you by….

It makes me want to cherish every moment, every story, every interaction, every once in a lifetime event.And it’s everything that I see with my own two eyes.

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Habit Stacking & Limits

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How do you manage screen time for yourself?

I guess to manage screen time for myself is just realizing….that I don’t need to be on my phone or computer all the time just to have some entertainment.

Sometimes, I try the pomodoro technique, as in I would do 25 or 30 minutes of screen time and then just give my eyes a break for 5 to 10 minutes and stretch, especially when I work or I want to relax a little bit.

However, I would just say that a limit of screen time would be for like 2 to 3 hours per day if I was watching movies or a tv show.

Very recently, I have tried to put habit stacking a little bit….

The first thing that I’m trying to do is read more books. Not on my phone but physical books from the library or bookstore.

Another would be probably meditation and self care.

Sometimes, I would meditate, pray, and just focus on my breathing, especially when i’m too addicted and need to limit some screen time.

Balance, blogging, growth, time

How Much Are We Talking?

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Do you need time?

The most constant thing, substance or factor that everyone wishes they have…is time.

Whether it be to get ready in the morning for work or school.

Looking good, getting dressed, and making up to a party while taking 1000 selfies for social media

Time is extremely important when planning for an event, whether it be al conferences or exams, and you are praying for the clock to slow down…

Or more time to spend with a loved one because before you know, they can be gone from your life and it hurts the most when you know you should have spend more time with them for memories

So yes…the need for more time in my life is essential. It is one of my important needs that I just wish I had unlimited time