learning, mindset, development, mental health

Other People’s Problems Don’t Affect Me – LET THEM/LET ME

What’s something you used to worry about but don’t anymore?

I used to care about other people’s problems like it was my own problem amd put stress on my head into a situation that does not concern me or does not involve me. It will be a top worry of what they think of me, or how can I solve.

Now I just say ‘Let Them’ (have problems) and ‘Let Me’ direct my attention to something that actually affects me.

Because it was one day where I saw an otuside fight, with my relatives or big arguing on the phone with my father in a subject that I did not know about or did not affect me.

I just was concerned and started to worry. But I remember the mantra, LET THEM. And I asked myself do I have anything to do with this, or is this my own personal concern….No. So I just turn the other cheek and kept on walking because unless I am actually in a situation which affects me…..

Other people’s problems and situation are theirs to deal with. LET ME protect me peace and move with my own life.

Unless they ask me my opinion, and I have to put healthy boundaries to protect me and stop worrying. I have nothing to be worried about. 🙃

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