Wordless Wednesday
Category: behavior
Helping Hand & Good Attitude
What makes a good neighbor?
I would say, what makes a good neighbor is if they’re very kind curious, welcoming to the community, helpful and always have a pleasant attitude.When you see them.
There are some factors with some specific boundaries. I would say good neighbors always have the best interests at heart.
They can be welcoming you to the community, very kind so they can extend the food into more of a personal or nice friendship.
Respectful in terms of noise and maintains a clean home inside and outside.
Given that they are thenpeople you would see in your mornings and afternoons, I would say good neighbors can be helpful in terms of applying any favors for each other, providing some advice to be aware of and look around for. Also, always make sure that it is a safe space.
Failure & Alone
Tell us about a time when you felt out of place.
As a young girl, I am used to or accustomed to trying to succeed every time, and every time that I fail, it would just be a hammer to the head or a punch in the face that and everything would be fallen out of place.
Or there are some times when I do have social anxiety, and I feel alone, and I just feel out of place with the other cliques or groups of friends that I’m not part of.
Or another feeling that I just don’t belong.
It’s a lonely inside feeling, but I always get reminded later that I will be okay….sometimes.
I mean, no one’s perfect, but it’s really hard not to be perfect in your parents’ eyes when they have high expectations for you. It adds a couple of pressures.
And when you’re a quiet girl, it’s hard to make friends but I understand now that you don’t need a lot of friends to be okay. But I do have a small, but it does make me feel a little lonely and scared.
Perfection is Overrated
What’s the best piece of advice you’ve ever received?
The best piece of advice I got was from my brother and my kind manager at work.
Ever since I was a child…always been a people pleaser and did it for their sake not really my own choice.
Try to be the perfect person in their eyes.
When advancement there are struggles, hardships, obstacles, and fear.
Everyone’s path is different and not gonna work out, but that doesn’t mean that it’s useless because the effort to try is still there.
And it weighs heavily on the person because they feel they let everyone down.
But in reality they haven’t…
Their idea of perfection for other people’s eyes is just overrated.
What matters is doing the stuff that makes you happy, or being the person you are with no filters, and if people don’t like it…
Don’t care and shine like your original self.
I heard this from a well-known comedian that it took him 38 years to have the life he needed and prayed for. Nothing went perfectly and the judgment of a lot both personal and social was coming in all corners.
He just ignored and did actions that made him better and better for his true self.
I have a perfectionist factor in me that is a negative that made me have lots of breakdowns and negative thoughts.
I’m taking steps to be better for me, and just ignore the noise of others or my negative self-talk and just be me.
Take things step by step
Act One Way….Different Instantly
What personality trait in people raises a red flag with you?
I hate when people act one in a fake manner just to put up appearances.
Then they act completely different in another way and it makes you question who they really are?
Its what I heard from Pretty Little Liars. A good line that applies to hard situations with others
You think you know people…then they surprise you.
Alison Dilaurentis
I see alot of fake people hiding themselves for negative and bad purposes. But luckily the truth comes out and it gives you the signal to run and distance yourselves from them.
The Quiet Bloom 